As you can see, progress was slow and the reason for that is a bit pathetic, I will admit to that. You remember my early birthday gift, right? The lapstand? Well, the stand came with a small frame. Perfectly serviceable, but too small to contain Summer Basket, at least in an upright position. I was determined to use the frame because it was a birthday present and I'm that infantile it keeps the fabric nice and taut and I can use both hands whilst stitching. You know how obsessed I am with my stitches lying neat and flat and yet and at the same time plump and un-twisted and all that, right? Anyway, long story short, the only way to use the frame with Summer Basket was to turn it sideways. But then, when you stitch, all of a sudden all your stitches point in the wrong direction. Sooo, apart from the fact that I had to stitch sideways, I also had to stitch the other way around, which is, for me, the wrong way around. And what do you know? I did it without making too many mistakes and my stitches looked much neater in the end. This is the point in the conversation where Harmien said I was weird. Well, not in so many words this time, but she couldn't suppress a heartfelt 'Nou já!' Which translates, roughly, to 'do you really have nothing else to worry about and if not, what a wonderful life you do lead, you weird and silly woman.' Ah well.
SAL update day was supposed to have been yesterday, but I was too busy talking about my son to do any updating. Let me explain.
Pelle's been attending this
medical daycare centre for nearly six months now, and it was time for the biannual talk about the progress he's made. You may remember that by the time he left his previous daycare centre, his developmental age was estimated at 13,5 months at the age of nearly five. The professionals there gave me to understand that there was little hope that Pelle would ever be able to attend school or make a whole lot of improvement overall, while I myself had always had the feeling that there was something that was holding him back, that was preventing him from coming into his own. Discouraged as I was to have any hopes, let alone high hopes, I watched his progress, all the while warning myself not to become too enthused about what I saw.
Now, nearly six months later, everybody is looking at this little boy with something I can only describe as wonderment, because not only is he much happier, he is also speeding ahead in his development, as if he's making up for lost time. His developmental age is now estimated at 27 months. Now I'm not a mathematician, but that's a lot. That's 13,5 months crammed into five months. This is fantastic news, of course, but the main thing is that Pelle is so freaking happy with it. He's finally learning to express himself, to share everything that he's been forced to keep to himself for so long. And being the chatterbox that he is, you can imagine his relief and glee :o) Nobody knows what the future will bring, of course, but just so you know: all of a sudden my future has become a heck of a lot sunnier.

There is a whole lot more I want to write about, but that will have to wait till my next post, which will be up on Monday. My brother and I went for a walk in the woods today and we took some pictures and had a very very good time. He called me weird too, but I will explain about that on Monday. And I have stitchy news and stitchy pics to share, so stay tuned.
Thanks for all of your kind and wonderful comments on my Sense and Sensibility finish and thank you, especially, for being around, for reading my blog, for leaving comments, and for sending good vibes our way every time I ask for them. As you can see, they really do help!!!
Yours gleefully,
Annemarie.
36 comments:
Weird is good. My hubby thinks I'm weird (I think in a good way, lol! And my kids think I'm weird, in that "she's always knitting or stitching" kind of way.) Harmien has yet to tell me that I'm weird...maybe because I hold it together when I write her!
And hurray for Pelle! That is wonderful that he is finding his way...and I know you have to be thrilled to see him blossoming :)
First and foremost--What WONDERFUL news about Pelle!! I can only imagine how happy you are with his rapid progress. (My sister has a son who is autistic and has aspergers as well. I know how she feels when her DS does thing right!) I will hope and pray that he continues with his improvements.
Now on to your stitching. It looks just fabulous to me. As for the frame? Whatever works for you is great. I'm an in-hand stitcher. I have tried a number of other methods and none work well for me. So I don't think you are "weird". :)
Glad to hear your son is doing well. My DS too was slow to develop and express himself verbally (older sister starting talking at age 1 and hasn't shut up since) but is now in 4th grade and happy and well-adjusted (or as well-adjusted as one of my kids can be). You never know what the future holds.
That's wonderful news on Pelle. So glad to hear he is finding himself and is happy! :)
Fantastic news about Pelle Annemarie :) I hope his speedy and wonderful development continues!
Kids can be astounding. I hope he continues. My niece has been blathering so much lately my cousin had to ask her to be quite. Not bad for a kid who could only say 30 words 2 years ago. Continued good luck.
Goes to show you what "experts" know. Mom knows! Such wonderful news there.
Summer basket is lovely and all summery!
So glad to read the news of Pelle's wonderful progress, in his development! This must be so encouraging for you!
Love your progress, and weird is good in my world, so don't change!
Yay Pelle! You go, kiddo!
Don't worry Annemarie, everyone is weird.
Pelle, the wonder boy! It is wonderful that he is making such progress. Where there is life there is hope!
That is so wonderful about Pelle! I hope he continues to improve by leaps and bounds :-).
A little weird is a good thing. Can't wait for your next post.
Thats such wonderful news about Pelle's progress, I am so happy for you both.
Weird did you say weird, naaah you are normal in my world.
Speaking as someone who spends many hours a day with kids, they are a constant amazement. I hope Pelle continues to reach his full potential.
Such wonderful news about Pelle! You must be thrilled that he has made so much progress. He is so adorable!
Your Summer Basket looks really pretty, and I can't wait to see what else you've been stitching.
First and foremost (sorry to repeat what Kathy began with!), I am SOOOO very happy to hear the news about Pelle. As a mom I know how happy that would've made you! There are miracles abound.
On your 'wierdness', ah well, we all have our little quirks! It made for good reading though! ;-)
Enjoy the lightening of your heart!
This is good news, indeed! Hooray for Pelle!! May he continue to grow and learn and develop in this very positive direction!!
Go Pelle, go Pelle, go Pelle....terrific news for you both, I'm so glad!
Mary Eman
What great news about Pelle - and what a lovely photo of you both, you look so happy and relaxed. Don't worry about your brother calling you weird, brothers always say things like that!
Oh, YEAY!!!!!!!!! Yeay for Pelle. My continued good thoughts and prayers for him as he blossoms. Big hugs to you, too--I know your heart must be overflowing.
Lovely stitching progress!
On the weird bit, I am called that all the time. Sometimes I wonder if it's others who are weird, and it's us weirdos who are the normal people. ;)
Who wants to be normal anyway? ;o)
GREAT news about Pelle. I'm so very glad that he is much happier and that consequently, you are too! Major congratulations for this huge step in your lovely boy's life.
Nice catching up. Some wonderful finishes and wips and great news about Pelle! xx
Niek's forever saying how weird I am. Here I thought it was a term of endearment of something. ;)
Hey, I'm THRILLED to pieces to hear the bright news about Pelle. Like you, I've always been convinced there's much more to the story and have been confident that you were specially chosen to be his Mommy because YOU would help him unlock his potential. You're a super-mommy!!!
Looking forward to hearing about your glorious walk in the woods and to seeing some of your fabulous stitching progress. :D
What good news about your little boy. Sometimes a mother really does know best. :)
I heard this quote a little while ago: "Facts are only temporary circumstances."
Keep your faith. :D
Personally, I think we are all slightly crazy in our own way! I did get a little confused about the stitching part but glad it turned out well. Hugs to both you and the chatterbox, Pelle, that is amazing news, and here's to even more!
Annemarie:
I have just subcribed to your blog for two reasons: your patterns and work and your humor. I cracked up reading about Pantoef. I also have a young cat, and although she is a year old now, I still have to get up every two minutes when she wants to tease me into playing with her.
Joanna
Ik ben zo ontzettend blij dat het steeds beter gaat met Pelle. Het is zo'n schat (jij ook hoor) en het is geweldig to horen hoe blij hij er zelf ook me is.
Een hele dikke knuffel voor jullie allebei.
Margaret
I'm doing Summer Basket too, you are inspiring me to stitch faster to catch up to you :)
Glad to hear good news about your little boy too, its amazing how sensitive children are to their surroundings and how they respond positively when they find a good fit.
I wanted to start with Nou ja! too, but the good news of Pelles development, that came first. What a wonderful news, it gives hope for his and your future. And I think it's good news he's happy with it himself.
And for the frames, and the stitching and the neatness etc: Nou Ja! ;-)
Ohh, happy, happy news. I am so glad that Pelle is happy where he is and is making incredible progress. I'll bet his Momma's heart is busting with pride. Congrats on doing such a fun job with such a special young man.
Wonderful, wonderful news about Pelle ! Seems like having a weird mother makes him progress in leaps and bounds ! Oh, Annemarie, you don't know how pleased I am about reading your post : I am so glad that he has words now, to play with, to interact with, to free his thoughts and feelings... Look all what your love for him has achieved ! Wait until he overtakes you... ;-)
Wonderful Summer basket!!
Memento mori wall is start...kiss kiss
Nadia
What great news about Pelle, I'm really happy for you!
Summer Basket is more and more lovely as it advances - so pretty!
I'm really glad to hear Pelle's news. I hope that things continue to go well
That is wonderful news!!! I think it says a lot for the changes the past five months have brought.
ohmygosh!! What wonderful news about sweet Pelle! I am overjoyed for you both!! Wow, so happy girl, just smiling here....
weird is good. i like weird!
Thumbs up for Pelle! Reading your post made me so happy, happy for both of you. Children are always good for the most surprising and stunning moments in life.
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